{"product_id":"how-to-feel-loved-the-five-mindsets-that-get-you-more-of-what-matters-most-hardcover","title":"How to Feel Loved: The Five Mindsets That Get You More of What Matters Most (Hardcover)","description":"\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eIn this pioneering work, a renowned happiness scientist\nand a top relationship researcher draw on the science of happiness, love, and\nhuman connection to offer a powerful framework to help readers appreciate and\nnurture what makes them feel truly loved.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003eWe can be loved—and still not feel loved. Many people\nbelieve that if they behave the right way, say the right things, or make\nthemselves more \u003ci\u003elovable\u003c\/i\u003e, they will feel more loved. But this kind\nof reflexive thinking is fundamentally misguided, causing a disconnect that can\nlead to loneliness, depression, and self-doubt. Sonja Lyubomirsky, the world’s\npreeminent expert on happiness, and Harry Reis, one of the world’s leading\nexperts on relationships and connection, have studied the complexities of\nwell-being and love in depth. Truly feeling loved, they’ve discovered, differs\nwidely from the actions that we usually associate with loving, being loved, and\nfalling in love.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003eIn this exceptional book, they present a radical, hopeful,\nand science-backed shift in how to think about love, revealing that feeling\nloved isn’t about making ourselves more appealing, available, and lovable—it’s\nabout showing our full and vulnerable selves to others and encouraging our\nloved ones to reveal their full and vulnerable selves to us. This is true for\nromantic love but also for the love we feel in friendship, family, and beyond.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003eIn \u003ci\u003eHow to Feel Loved\u003c\/i\u003e, they introduce five\npowerful mindsets—tools to help us feel the love we crave with the people in\nour lives.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003eA \u003cb\u003eSharing mindset\u003c\/b\u003e—showing our vulnerabilities\nand inner world, not just the polished parts\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003eA \u003cb\u003eListening-to-Learn mindset\u003c\/b\u003e—making space to\ntruly tune in to another, not just to take turns speaking\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003eA \u003cb\u003eRadical Curiosity mindset\u003c\/b\u003e—being genuinely\ninterested in another and asking better questions\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003eAn\u003cb\u003e Open-Heart mindset—\u003c\/b\u003ebeing kind and affirming\nto another for who they truly are\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003eA\u003cb\u003e Multiplicity mindset\u003c\/b\u003e—embracing the messy\ncomplexity in all of us\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003eThese mindset shifts give shape to a dynamic back-and-forth\nprocess the authors call the Relationship Sea-Saw, which will help readers\nremake their conversations in ways that enable them to deeply know those they\nlove and become deeply known by them. It isn’t enough to be loved. To be truly\nfulfilled, we must \u003ci\u003efeel\u003c\/i\u003e loved. This book shows us how.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eAbout the Author\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eSonja Lyubomirsky\u003c\/b\u003e (A.B., Harvard, \u003ci\u003esumma\ncum laude\u003c\/i\u003e; Ph.D., Stanford) is Distinguished Professor at the University of\nCalifornia, Riverside and author of the bestselling \u003ci\u003eThe How of\nHappiness \u003c\/i\u003eand \u003ci\u003eThe Myths of Happiness\u003c\/i\u003e, which have been\ntranslated in thirty-nine countries. She has received numerous awards for her\nwork and has been featured in a wide range of media, including the \u003ci\u003eNew\nYork Times\u003c\/i\u003e, the \u003ci\u003eWashington Post,\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eThe Atlantic\u003c\/i\u003e and\non the \u003ci\u003eToday\u003c\/i\u003e show, NPR, and CNN. She lives in Santa Monica,\nCalifornia, with her family.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eHarry T. Reis \u003c\/b\u003e(B.S., City College of New York;\nPh.D., New York University) is Dean's Professor in the Department of Psychology\nat the University of Rochester, which honored him with the Georgen Award for\nDistinguished Achievement and Artistry in Teaching in 2009. He has received\nmany other awards, and his work is frequently featured in the media, including\nNPR’s \u003ci\u003eHidden Brain, Scientific American, Psychology Today,\u003c\/i\u003e and\nthe \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e. He lives in Rochester, New York, with his\nfamily.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"TIMES DISTRIBUTION PTE LTD","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44877663469775,"sku":"9780063426665","price":39.19,"currency_code":"SGD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0574\/5662\/3823\/files\/download_efd62c04-4985-44b2-8160-190965788925.jpg?v=1772434113","url":"https:\/\/popular.com.sg\/products\/how-to-feel-loved-the-five-mindsets-that-get-you-more-of-what-matters-most-hardcover","provider":"Popular Book Company Pte Ltd","version":"1.0","type":"link"}